What's Right for Me: Questions & Answers

Do I need my parents’ consent to get birth control? Will my parents be told?
You do not need your parents’ consent for birth control information, condoms, or prescription drugs such as pills and injections. In general, birth control counseling and distribution are both completely confidential. But there are a few situations where child abuse laws require clinic staff to report very young teenagers or teenagers engaging in sex with significantly older partners. It’s a good idea to ask your doctor or clinic what their policy is about keeping this information confidential.

How can I pay for birth control, abortion or childbirth?
Some health insurance policies cover these costs. However, keep in mind that seeking any type of medical care under your parents’ insurance policy may result in their finding out why you went to the doctor. Many of these services are provided confidentially to teens at little or no cost through FamilyPACT (private doctors and local clinics) and Planned Parenthood. It’s also a good idea to ask if you qualify for Medi-Cal. These services are paid for by Medi-Cal for youth who qualify.

What if I just want to get information about sex or STDs?
It’s a good idea to get informed about sex and STDs. You can go to a clinic or private doctor that serves teens confidentially to get information or just ask questions. Your family doctor can also provide this information, though be sure to ask about their confidentiality policy if you want your visit kept private.

Can I get treated for STDs without my parents’ permission?
If you are 12 years old or older, you can be treated for sexually transmitted diseases (such as syphilis, gonorrhea, herpes, HIV, etc.) without your parents’ permission.

Do I need my parents’ permission to get an abortion?
No matter how old you are, in California you can get an abortion without your parents’ permission. For free or low-cost, confidential abortion services, contact Planned Parenthood or your doctor.